FAQ

Questions & answers

Everything you need to know before the big day. We'll keep adding to this as plans come together.

Where will the ceremony and reception be held?

Both will be held at the Surety Hotel (opens a map in a new tab) in Des Moines, IA (ceremony and reception times coming soon). The ceremony and reception will be indoors. Cocktail hour, weather permitting, will be held in the courtyard.

When do I need to RSVP?

RSVPs open in spring 2027 when formal invitations go out. You'll RSVP on the RSVP page.

I RSVP'd yes, but something came up and I can no longer make it. What should I do?

While we wish you could be here to celebrate with us, we understand that life happens. If it's before the RSVP deadline, you can simply resubmit your RSVP on the RSVP page. If the deadline has passed, please reach out to Katie directly at (952) 393-9647.

Either way, please let us know as soon as possible so we can give our vendors an accurate headcount.

What is the dress code?

Dress code is cocktail attire. Please no jeans, shorts, crocs, flip-flops, or hats. Thank you for helping us make our event feel special.

Can I bring a guest?

Due to limited space, only those formally invited on your wedding invitation can attend. If you have received a “Guest”, it will appear on your RSVP invitation.

Are kids welcome?

While we love your little ones, we kindly request a kid-free night. We hope you'll enjoy a night off and celebrate with us!

Where should I stay?

Check out the Travel page for details on where to stay.

Where do I park?

Check out the Travel page for details on where to park.

Will there be a shuttle to the venue?

No, all of our room blocks are within a 5 minute walk of the Surety Hotel. If you're not staying downtown, check out the Travel page for details on where to park.

Are you registered anywhere?

Registry details coming soon.

Who should I contact if I have questions?

Feel free to reach out to Katie at (952) 393-9647.